Monday, October 19, 2009

Landmark Day!



News Flash!

I got out of bed BY MYSELF today!

OK, so it can be really lovely to have people cook you meals, bring you things you dropped on the floor but can't pick up, surround you with fields of  flowers, wash your hair (at a salon), make you yummy treats and just dote on your every whim ... well, lovely for the recipient, anyway. But having to wake someone in the darkest hours of night who is clearly in the middle of a blissful and much-needed rest just so they can carefully slide your "dead-weight leg" out of bed so you can make it to the bathroom on time is, well, not so lovely. At this moment, Jim and I are both more liberated, independent and progressed! Small steps.

It is Day +12 from surgery and other strides of importance include: Improved Walker Skills; In & Out of Chairs Independently; Ability to Bend Leg Formerly Known as "Dead Leg" Without Help; Hospital "Commode" Graduation and First Dinner Party (in a "big girl" chair, no less!). It's amazing how many of the movements and abilities were once taken for granted -- never again...

Tomorrow marks the next big landmark -- return to NYC with Jim for my first post-op follow up. Hopefully I'll get permission to try and master all kinds of other fun skills. With the sun out for the first time in a week, and the leaves looking so crisp and colorful from the window all my parts feel that the seasonal change is well underway.




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My Support Crew

My Support Crew
Jim, Nick, Madie & Liana

The Countdown Begins...

First blog, first major hip surgery, first chance to lay on the couch for weeks on end (well, in about 25 years, anyway...). Here we go!

Jim and I have spent the better part of the past week "laying down the runway" as we prepare for takeoff on Wednesday at the Hospital for Joint Disease at NYU in NYC where we will be greeted at dawn (it's always dawn for these things, is that so you too tired to change your mind?) by our rock star surgeon, Dr. David Feldman.

While Liana, Madie and Nick head off for school ( and hopefully just a little oblivion) I will get fully acquainted with the blue-ribbon anesthesia team who will set me up with an epidural and hopefully knock me out so well that I won't notice the piles of surgery tools (Home Depot sale, anyone?).

Three or four hours later I will wake up with a completely re-aligned hip socket (if you really want to know more, I have included links here in another box about osteotomy) and hopefully pain-oblivious through the wonders of epidural support. The last 3 times I ever had an epidural, they handed me a baby within about an hour. That would be a little unnerving here, but would make for a great story, right?

By the time I really figure out where I am, hopefully it will be in the new pediatric unit at HJD which is all-single rooms. Ahhhh... to be a kid again! This piece of good news is side perk of being cut up by the guy that runs the whole place. He mostly works on kids, and since I basically have the full-grown version of a kid birth defect, he is now cleared to use his power tools on me.

Then the makeup and styling team arrives.... or maybe just Jim, my wonderful Head Nurse who has seen me through 3 babies pretty darn well (he does a great post-op puppet show, just ask him!). He and I will get cozy and hopefully enjoy at least a day of epidural bliss (um, that would be just me).

Then there will be a few days of training and workshops -- How to be a One-Legged Mom for a whole bunch of weeks. Hopefully this will include lessons in How to Obey the Laws of Bedrest, because that is the class I could seriously fail in. Pretty sure these workshop days will include a bunch of narcotics, so this would be a good time to ask me for money.

So that's what's on my calendar this week.

Check back for more updates, and if there aren't any after surgery day (can you believe these hospitals without wi-fi! the nerve!), you can text Jim on his cell, because I am guessing he will be watching a lot of Oprah for a few days.

If you've read this far then please know that I can laugh a lot more than cry about this next big step because of friends and family like you -- who walk with me each step of the way, and who know that this is not a fatal illness, far from it, and that having love, laughter and support will mean that we can do jumping jacks together at Christmas. Because I have never done that, have you?

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